Reunification Therapy

Need support rebuilding family relationships?
Our experienced team will personally match you with a therapist skilled in Reunification Therapy,
tailored to your family’s unique needs.

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What is Reunification Therapy?

Reunification therapy supports children and caregivers in repairing relationships after a period of disruption or disconnection.

This can happen in the context of:

  • Separation or divorce
  • High-conflict co-parenting
  • A long period of absence
  • A breakdown in trust or attachment
  • Situations where a child is resistant to contact
  • Court involvement or legal recommendations

At its core, this work is not about pushing a child to “go along with” contact or reconnect quickly.
It is about understanding what is getting in the way of connection and working through that with care, honesty, and emotional safety.

Meet Our Reunification Therapy Counsellor

Compassionate support for families working to rebuild trust, connection, and healthy relationships.

Sue Anne Poh Skylark Counselling Clinic 7

Sue Anne Poh

MEd, Registered Clinical Counsellor
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Our Approach

At Skylark Counselling, we approach reunification therapy through a relational, trauma-informed, and developmentally attuned lens.

We hold a few things at the centre of this work:

  • Children’s responses, even when they’re intense, confusing, or hard to sit with, are meaningful.
  • Resistance doesn’t come out of nowhere
  • Caregivers are often carrying their own layers of hurt, grief, or frustration into the process
  • Repair takes more than time together—it takes consistency, safety, and a willingness to do things differently

Our role is to create a space where:

  • Children don’t feel pressured to “perform” connection
  • Caregivers feel supported—but also gently challenged where it matters
  • Interactions can be slowed down, guided, and repaired in real time

We move at a pace that reflects readiness, not urgency, as rushing this process usually does the opposite of what people are hoping for.

What the Process Can Look Like

1

Getting a Clear Picture

We start with individual sessions to understand each person’s experience, the history of the relationship, and what’s currently getting in the way.
2

Preparing for Reconnection

Before bringing people together, we spend time supporting caregivers in building the tools needed to respond in ways that actually help rebuild trust.
That often includes emotional regulation, communication, and managing expectations (including some of the hard ones).
3

Supported Reconnection

Contact is reintroduced gradually, with the therapist present to guide interactions and navigate challenges.
4

Strengthening & Moving Forward

As things begin to stabilize, we shift toward supporting the relationship outside of sessions—focusing on what will actually hold over time, not just what works in the room.

Who This Work May Be For

Reunification therapy may be helpful if:

  • A child is avoiding or refusing contact with a parent
  • There has been a significant rupture in the relationship
  • Attempts at reconnecting haven’t gone well—or have made things feel worse
  • Ongoing co-parenting challenges are impacting the child
  • A legal or court process has recommended therapeutic involvement
  • If you’re unsure whether this fits your situation, that’s okay! We can figure that out together.

Our Philosophy

We don’t believe relationships repair through pressure, or that time alone fixes disconnection.

  • People feel understood, not overridden
  • Accountability without blame or shame
  • Emotional safety is built gradually
  • Small shifts are consistently followed through on

Reunification is not about going back to how things were.
It is about building something more stable, intentional, and honest moving forward.

Our role is to walk alongside you with clarity and care.

Not Sure Which Counsellor Is Right for You?

Our team can help match you with a reunification therapist based on your family’s needs, goals, and situation. Choose a time that works for you, and we’ll take care of the rest.

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